Addicted To Bad Relationships

Why And How To Break It - Page 2

Addicted to Bad Relationships - The Nature Of Bad Boys

Many women get trapped in the vicious cycle of bad relationships because of their own way of thinking. They let other people relate to them on the basis of their weaknesses and faults.

They are attracted to bad traits in people and consequently, these lead them to unhealthy relationships. For the outsiders, it looks as if they are addicted to bad relationships!

Bad boys might seem to offer more fun and excitements, but it hardly lasts long. Most of them see women as conquest - something to be captured and conquered. When the thrill is over, so is the relationship. And the women then will be left alone for another conquest.

And know this one thing. While critics and insult can and will change a woman, it won't change a man. It will only make him worse, more stubborn than before.

Men are different from women. You can not and you'll never be able to change a man! A man will not change unless he wants to change. And he will not want to change unless he feels the necessity for it.

So, if you think you can help a bad boy to change him into a better person, it is foolish. It's only a wishful thinking, nothing more.

Keep this in mind, if you feel that you need to change a man, then he is the wrong person for you! It is much better for you to find a man that you don't feel like you have to change. It is much better for you to find somebody who will bring out the best in you instead the worst in you. "Addicted to bad relationships" stigmas are the last things you need in your life!

Addicted to Bad Relationships - Your Better Bet

Nice and good guys over there, although they look awkward, clumsy and boring, they're always a better bet. They may look or act needy, or too nervous when talking to their love interests, but unlike the bad guys, they are usually more serious in building a mutual and more permanent relationship.

If you're willing to see from other perspectives, their clings and neediness can mean nothing except their lack of experience in facing women.

Now, which one do you want, a man that is already very experienced and enjoys very much playing his games on females or an inexperienced guy that, maybe, will become a good husband and father for your kids?

But too many girls and women are unfair to them. They are too quickly in judging those nice guys' politeness as weaknesses, not male enough and lacks of confidence.

Girls, if you often do this, try to put yourself in their shoes. If you meet someone that you are attracted to him so much, wouldn't you do and act the same? Wouldn't you be too nervous to say a thing to him, feeling awkward when he's around?

Of course not every seemingly nice guys are really nice. Some are not. Don't stereotype. Like women, men are different one another. Just because you've met some that are really jerks inside, it doesn't mean they're all jerks. 

So girls, if you want to have a better and more promising relationship, open your heart to those nice guys, give them chances and help them, if necessary, to get closer to you. There's nothing you can lose except that "addicted to bad relationships" stigmas!

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