Differences Between Men and Women

In Their Way of Thinking - Page 3

The Differences (continuation)

• Differences between men and women in facing stress.

  When facing stress, men tend to face it with a "fight or flight" strategy. They will either try to resolve the situation (usually alone, by himself) or, if they feel it is too hard for them, they will try to find a way of escape (fishing, drinking, etc).

  Women, on the other hand, tend to face it by meeting or finding friends to share and trying to solve the problem together.

• While insult and ridicule can make women change, they will never work on men.

  Insult and ridicule will only make men angry and more resistant to change. This is an important point among many differences between men and women that every woman must remember./p>

  The best way to "change" your man is by giving him appreciation on things he does that you like. Because men crave for such care and appreciation, he will do try to find other ways to make you happy and smile.... and thus earn your trust and respect.

• In an ongoing romantic relationship, the phrase "I trust you" from the woman he loves is more meaningful to a man than "I love you".

  It is because the phrase "I trust you" can give him more boost to his pride and confidence. The "I love you" phrase, although it sounds pleasing too to him, is less effective because his brain structure makes him somewhat "disconnected" from his emotion





• Differences in the way men and women remember things/events.

  Women have an enhanced ability to recall memories that have strong emotional nuances. Men tend to recall easier the events where they had special achievements or anything that boosted their pride.

  Men also can recall easily profound experiences that are associated with competition or physical activities.

• Men and women perceive sex differently.

  Sexual intercourse can make a woman feels bonded to the man. And many women are not willing to have sex with a man they don't have any special connection.

  But man is highly capable of doing sex with every woman he finds. Sex and feeling are two different unrelated things to him.

That's all for now the general differences between men and women in their way of thinking. I hope you find them helpful in your quest to have better relationship with the one you love.

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