Steps for Becoming a Dream Man

Be A Man That Women Want - Page 2

Before continuing, I must emphasize that becoming a dream man is not an overnight process. It's not easy, but not difficult either. Every man can do that as long as he has willingness and perseverance to learn and to change. 

1. Most things we know about women are false

   Being a dream man requires you to be willing to change any wrong concepts you have about women. If you hardly successful with women, then it is very likely that you have that wrong perceptions about the opposite sex. You must accept this fact or else you'll be too stubborn to change. Open your mind and learn to see women from different point of view.

2. Understand the female mind

   As already mentioned before, women think differently than men. Find out and learn how women think, what women think and what women want in men.

3. Understand the way women communicate

   Women communicate very differently from men. While men use 80% logic, women use 80% emotion in interpreting communication. Many times this is very confusing to men because men tend to interpret words literally. An "ideal man" should be able to know when a woman really means what she says and when she means the contrary.

4. Understand the attitude that women want in men

   Certain attitude in a man that matters the most to every woman:

   • Self-confidence
   • Fun
   • Optimism & positivity
   • Leadership
   • The way he communicates and expresses himself
   • The way he handles conflicts and problems
   • The way he handles HER emotions




5. Specify the type of woman you want

   There are many types of woman and each type have its own characteristics. You have to determine the type of woman you'd like to have: physical appearance (tallness, skin color, sexiness, eye shape, race etc) as well as non-physical aspects (education, religion, smartness, quiet or talkative etc).

   This will help you to be more focus because without it you'll have a lot more to learn and observe. Don't ever be afraid of not getting the type of woman you want. Have this mentality: being a dream man it is you who choose, not the girls!

6. Do the inner works and bring out the best of you

   Everybody has strengths and weaknesses in their characters. Discipline yourself to strengthen your good side and eliminate the bad side as best as you can. Always talk positive to everybody and to your own self.

7. Change of Mindset

   This might sound weird, but this is essential. You must change your mindset from being the one that chase women to the one that is chased by women. Keep it in mind that you are the ideal man that every woman wants. You are the "perfect man", a man that every woman desires!

8. Learn the techniques

   This is about how or what to do to make the woman we want prefers to be with us than with other guys. There are so many good techniques out there. Choose the technique that conforms with your personality to avoid awkward feelings when doing it. Learn and practice it in the real world. See it for yourself whether it works for you or not.

9. Innovate

   After mastering some techniques, innovate and make your own techniques. Be a dream man with his own "trade marks"!

Hmmm, a rather long list we have made. To make the list shorter, let me summarize it:

• Learn to understand women the right way.
• Determine the type of woman you want.
• Shape your mindset and character to become the "perfect man" that women dream of.
• Learn the techniques and then innovate

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