Understanding How Men Think

Keys to Happy Living with Your Man - Page 1

Understanding how men think is one subject that many women have overlooked and/or oversimplified. Just because men are more left-brained, it doesn't mean that they're cut-off from their feelings. And just because they're sexually more aggressive, it doesn't mean that they mostly think with their crotch when they deal with (pretty) women.

Yes, men and women differ in their way of thinking. That makes it difficult for a man and a woman to understand each other. Without willingness to understand and fulfill the expectations and the needs of each other, it is impossible to reach happiness in relationship.

There is a long long way to walk on to reach that "heaven on earth" happiness. But, like the proverb says: "A journey of thousand miles started with the first step", let's make the first step: learn more to have better understanding on how men think!

Understanding How Men Think

Maybe we never really realize how different are men from women. To be extreme, maybe the only similarity between them is the desire to love and to be loved! But even in this only one similarity, lies a difference that is noteworthy. What is it? Okay, enough talking. Let's see it, and the others, one by one.

• Yes, just like women, men love to be loved! Actually, they need it more than women! But they need it in the different way than you do.

  If you love your man to hug you, kiss you, caress you, listen to you and say that magical three words to you, your man on the other hand, craves you to adore him, trust him, appreciate him for his achievements and for what he has done for you. The words "I trust you" can do wonders to men....






• While women base their decisions more on feeling, for men, feeling is only one factors of many. Understanding how men think must take this fact into account. For a woman, if I love you and you love me, we should get married and "live happily ever after". But men will consider many other things.

  A gentleman, before he came to his decision to propose you, for example, he should have gone through many consideration: "Will she fit to my goals?", "Won't she become a stumbling block in my career path?", "Do I need her company through this life?", "How secured am I financially?", etc.

• Lust is a heady experience for men. It can make any men thinks with his crotch and throws away his sensible judgments. While sex can make most women feel bonded to the man she made love with, for men sex is just sex. Sex alone will not make him feel bonded to the woman. That's how men think about sex.

• Unlike women who are more sensitive to words and to what they hear, men are more sensitive to their sight. That's why your appearance plays an important role in attracting men.

Go on to Page 2 to learn more about how men think.

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