How to Build Self Confidence

Building Self Confidence for Successful Dating

How to build self confidence? If lack of confidence is your problem, then you should fix it before trying to approach any woman or else you'll get dumped a lot and suffer. Women attracted more easily to men who show high self confidence.

On the contrary, they turn off quickly to the men who are needy and show little or no confidence. Therefore, building self confidence is a very important step if we want to be successful in getting close with the woman we like.

Mostly we, good and nice guys out there, become very nervous when we meet a very beautiful girl/woman. We often lose our coolness and don't know what to say in front of her. 

Or we become scarily nice to her that make us look unnatural. All that just makes her see us as little or no confident man which is very unattractive to her.

On the other hand, most "bad boys" show no such symptoms. That's why we often see intelligent, pretty and nice girls are very attached to bad boys while all the nice guys around can't even get close to them even though they are trying hard. 

Yes, self confidence can really make difference when approaching women. That's why we write this "how to build self confidence" guide to help you in building your self confidence.

So, the issue here is not being jerk or cocky to get a girl. You don't have to be or act like a jerk. You can still be yourself, stick with your good character and get any girl you want as long as you are confident with yourself. We hope that this section how to build self confidence will be useful for you.

Below are some tips on what to do to help boost confidence especially when meet the girl/woman we have crush on:

• Don't think too highly of her.

  She is just a human being like you. Just think her as an ordinary person. Imagine, for example, the smell of her stomach gas when she farts (everyone farts, isn't it?). If you can do that, you'll be able to see her more as mere human being just like you. And you will be more confident and relax when you face her and talk to her. Hmmmh, maybe this is the most silly advice in this how to build self confidence section, but just try it. It works!

• Exercise.

  Do some sports to improve your health and fitness. If you feel good about yourself, healthy and fit, you will be much more confident to interact with other people around you.

• Dress nicely.

  If you dress nicely, you will feel more comfortable with yourself. No one is more conscious to your appearance than yourself. If you don' feel that you look good, you will somewhat feel awkward and it will change the way you carry yourself and interact with other people.

• Smile.

  Train yourself to smile. Look into mirror and smile. Believe me, smile works wonders to our confidence. If we smile, we will feel better about ourselves and it will help us to be kinder to others as well.

• Be kind and generous.

  Help other people if necessary. You will feel good after helping others and it will make you more confident in yourself, knowing that you have contribution to your surroundings.

• Have principles and hold on to them.

  Without principles, your life would be directionless and you will not be very sure about yourself. People will appreciate you more if they can recognize you as man of principles.

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