How to Talk to Women

Shouldn't We Take Their Words Literally? - Page 1

How to Talk to Women, First Thing to Know

Before we begin, please be noted that this article is mainly for men who are already in relationship. If you are looking for tips on getting a date or something like that, check this "how to get a date" section.

Understanding women, it's a very hard subject for most men. No wonder many men facing difficulties with their woman.

We men tend to speak what we want literally. And we expect others to do the same. In addition, it is the most logical way, isn't it?

But, women don't communicate that way. Yes of course they also use words in their communication with us. But more than often, they don't really mean what they are saying when they talk to us, especially if it is concerning their (unpleasant) feeling or emotion.

And women are emotional beings. So, we can expect that the woman we love will say things that we, as her man, must "decipher" their true meaning... or else she'll be quiet unhappy or even get upset!

I know it sucks. But we can't just blame her for that. It's the way she is. Instead, in part it is our "duty" to interpret what she means correctly. Indeed, this "how to talk to women" thing is more like an art than a knowledge.... 

Words Are Not Everything

Do you know that, based on research, words only deliver about 30% of all meaning in communication? The other big 70% comes from nonverbal behavior such as body language and paralinguistic cues (voice volume, pitch, intonation etc).

Some other scientists even state that those non-verbal forms of communication consists 93% of human communication. That means, words only play 7% of importance!

Can you see the importance of that non-verbal behavior? Its importance can not be over-emphasized. We must be aware of body language and non-verbal cues in communication. In fact, it is the key to master this "how to talk to women" art.

Women are known to use that non-verbal things much more than men! This is the cause why understanding women seems very complicated to most men. Unless we make ourselves familiar to those unspoken words, our relationship with the woman we love will always be at stake: how if she meets other man that "can understand her better"?

Your woman might be of a faithful type. But if again and again she feels that you don't understand her, or worse, don't care about her, she might eventually be attracted to that "more understanding guy"! You see, mastering that art of "how to talk to women" is vital!

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