How Women Think

Understanding The Way Women Think - Page 3

How Women Think

Unlike men who most of them based their decision making 80% on proofs & logic (R-Complex & neurocortex), women based their decision 80% on emotion (limbic system). That's how women think. That's the main reason why many women/girls choose to get along with a man/boy that seems very "inadequate" compared to them.

The girl might have preference for tall, handsome, rich and gallant man. It is logical. But, she is an emotional being. She mainly responds to her emotions. If that "ugly" guy can "play" her emotions the right way, it is very probably that the beautiful girl will choose him over hundreds of other "much more promising" guys!

So, the key is the emotion. Never ever try to attract any girl/woman logically. You will fail! In fact, this is why most men failed miserably when trying to attract their dream girls. 

They become very nice to the girl they're attracted to: buy her expensive gifts, always available on request, show so much love etc.. They think, by doing all that the girl will be impressed and will learn to love them in return.

But sadly, usually they fail. Why? Because they tried to attract her using logical way. It is logical to expect the girl we show our affection to will also love us in return. But that's not the way how women think. It doesn't work that way!

Think of it this way: if the girl is very attractive, there must be so many men that will try to get her attention using the same logical way: buying her gifts, showing her much attention etc. If you also do that, you'll only be one among many, nothing special. 

In addition, by doing that you present yourself to the girl as predictable, i.e. boring, and not challenging. You will be emotionally unattractive to her. So, what to do?

Attract her emotionally: make her respect you by showing her that you have confidence in yourself, make her fun by telling good jokes, make her curious about you by being somewhat mysterious & challenging etc.. 

If you want to know more about how to attract women the right way, this book provides more in-depth discussion as well as tips on tricks that are simple enough for every man to do.

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