Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

And How To Be More Attractive Without Being A Jerk - Page 1

The Phenomenon

"Nice guys finish last! If you want to get a date, be a jerk. No need to be good. Women won't appreciate you". That sarcastic expression has become more widespread today among boys and men.

Since long time ago it had been a very frustrating phenomenon for most, who consider themselves, nice and good guys.

They can not understand why so many good and pretty girls fall into those bad guys' hands while there are a lot of other much better reputed guys around.

And worse than that, it often seems that it is the girls who chase those jerks instead of the opposite.

No, it's not because those girls don't know about those guys' bad reputation with women. Everybody knows that. In fact, the smell of their stinks precede them everywhere they go.

And it's not that those good and nice girls are from a distant world. They live here in the neighborhood, among us. They must have known exactly who those guys are, how they treated girls and women before. But still, they choose to be with those bad boys instead.

The Controversy

In their common sense, no women will choose a bad man over a gentleman. They'll all say that they want somebody that will treat them well and respect them. That's what they always say. But when it comes to realities, they choose those bad-reputed guys instead!

That phenomenon is real. We can easily spot that in everyday lives. There are even many poems and songs written about it. (One of them was sung by Jadyn Maria as you can see in the attached video).

But, the funny thing is, when you present it to young females out there, about how nice guys finish last when it comes to dating, many of them will jump all over you and completely disagree... even to the extent of making up excuses to "redefine" those ill-reputed guys as the genuinely good ones - who were unfairly-judged by the society - and all the nice guys as a band of wolves in sheep's clothing

Nice Guys Finish Last: Why

Alright girls, if you read this too, I don't want to argue with you here. I just want to help fellow guys to understand this "nice guys finish last" phenomenon. I hope my knowledge and experience can help them, and in time.... you, too, if those good guys have learned something on how to make you become more attracted to them.

And don't worry, I'll try to be as fair as I can. I'll also list your arguments on why you turned yourself to those bad boys later (And if you feel that you need to share something, you can do so here).

Read on Page 2 to find out why nice guys finish last.

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