Optimistic Thinking in Dating

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How to Have Optimistic Thinking (continuation)

• Respect yourself and always think positive of yourself

  You might lack many things in many areas, but as the maxim says: "Nobody's perfect", everyone else has their own imperfections. So, focus on your advantage, on the things you know you are good at; and give your best to improve your quality.

• Smile more

  You might not be aware of it, but research shows that our smile not only gives good effects to the people we are in contact with, but also to ourselves. Try to smile more, and see it yourself how it makes you feel better.

  In addition, most people will smile back to us if we smile to him/her, although maybe with a little awkward smile. However, it will give us warm feeling which in turn gives us way to have positive and optimistic thinking about ourselves.

• Use positive words

  Always use positive words in your dialogs, either with your own self (inner dialog) or with others. By using positive words as most as you can, you will indirectly push yourself to think in the positive way. Train yourself consistently to do this, and you will know the power of positive thinking soon enough!

• Disregard any negative feeling and thought

  For example, if you feel lazy when there is something you must do, disregard that feeling and immediately do whatever you have to do.





• Replace any negative thought with positive one

  If a negative thought enters your mind, replace it with a positive one once your realize it. Of course that negative thought will try again to enter your mind, but don't let it take control. Be persistent, and eventually your mind will be transformed to positive. Thus, you will experience the power of positive thinking soon.

• Inner resistance

  Many times you will feel inner resistance when replacing negative thought with positive one. Do not give up! Keep looking to the benefits of the good and happy thoughts!

• Visualize favorable situations

  Always visualize favorable and/or beneficial situation when you want to do anything. This will also help you to in your quest to have positive and optimistic thinking.

  For example, when you want to approach a girl in a party, visualize in your head that she will welcome your introduction and that you both will have warm chit-chat. This will help you to act more confidently and thus give her good first impression.

  If, however, she refuses to know you, don't be discouraged. Always have positive and optimistic thinking about yourself: it's not your loss, but it's hers because she has just wasted a very rare chance to get to know a very promising guy!

  No, it's not haughtiness. It's about self-respect! Always have positive and optimistic thinking about your own self!

• Repetition of affirmations

  If there is something you want to achieve but you are still not sure about it, make a positive affirmation and say it to yourself repetitively. Do this to impress your subconscious mind and to trigger it into the desired action.

  For example, you have to swim 10 rounds but you haven't even tried it before. What should you do? Keep repeating in your mind "I can do it" when doing the 10 rounds swimming. This will give you "extra power" to overcome that challenge.

• Creative Visualization

  It works just like repetition of affirmations, but now instead of saying it, you visualize it in your mind. By visualizing rightly (deeply desired, well concentrated, well-defined, and often), you will attract it to become real in your life. The law of attraction will give a way to your mind power to bring it to reality.

Do those inner works and training consistently, and experience the power of positive thinking soon!

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